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Dianne’s Missives May 15, 2026

 

Thought to Consider

A.A. is not something you join, it’s a way of life.

The Road to Recovery

The road to recovery is always under construction.

Premature Funerals

“I have been to too many premature funerals due to our good friend alcohol.”

Spiritual and Physical Health

“When the spiritual malady is overcome, we straighten out mentally and physically.”

Control

“Most of us have been unwilling to admit we were real alcoholics. No person likes to think he is bodily and mentally different from his fellows. Therefore, it is not surprising that our drinking careers have been characterized by countless vain attempts to prove we could drink like other people. The idea that somehow, someday he will Control and Enjoy his drinking is the great obsession of every abnormal drinker. The persistence of this illusion is astonishing. Many pursue it into the gates of insanity or death.”

Sunlight

“It is plain that a life which includes deep resentment leads only to futility and unhappiness. To the precise extent that we permit these, do we squander the hours that might have been worthwhile. This business of resentment is infinitely grave. We found that it is fatal. For when harboring such feelings we shut ourselves off from the sunlight of the Spirit. The insanity of alcohol returns and we drink again. And with us, to drink is to die.”

To Handle Sobriety

“The more I drank, the more I fantasized everything . . . I lived in a dream world. A.A. led me gently from this fantasizing to embrace reality with open arms. And I found it beautiful! For, at last, I was at peace with myself. And with others. And with God.”

Our Survival

“The HONESTY expressed by the members of A.A. in meetings has the power to open my mind. Nothing can block the flow of energy that HONESTY carries with it. The only obstacle to this flow of energy is inebriation, but even then, no one will find a closed door if he or she has left and chooses to return. Once he or she has received the gift of sobriety, each A.A. member is challenged on a daily basis to accept a program of HONESTY.”

Ego Deflation

All of A.A.’s Twelve Steps ask us to go contrary to our natural desires . . . they all deflate our egos. When it comes to ego deflation, few Steps are harder to take than Five. But scarcely any Step is more necessary to longtime sobriety and peace of mind than this one.

Big Book Quote

“We found that as soon as we were able to lay aside prejudice and express even a willingness to believe in a Power greater than ourselves, we commenced to get results, even though it was impossible for any of us to fully define or comprehend that Power, which is God.”

Prayer

“In A.A. we have found that the actual good results of prayer are beyond question. They are matters of knowledge and experience. All those who have persisted have found strength not ordinarily their own. They have found wisdom beyond their usual capability. And they have increasingly found a peace of mind which can stand in the face of difficult circumstances.”

The Way of Strength

“We need not apologize to anyone for depending upon the Creator. We have good reason to disbelieve those who think spirituality is the way of weakness. For us, it is the way of strength. The verdict of the ages is that men of faith seldom lack courage. They trust their God. So we never apologize for our belief in Him. Instead, we try to let Him demonstrate, through us, what He can do.”

Dianne

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New Year One Honest Thing Challenge

Happy New Year Friends! RedBeard here, we wrapped up a holiday season and we are starting a new year. Here’s the challenge between now and the end of January, write in and tell us one honest thing about your recovery that you normally keep quiet. Not too much detail, not your highlight reel, not the line you give, the real thing. This is an accountability based reflection practice, if you don’t want to share publicly perform this challenge privately by writing it down and then destroying it.

  • The resentment you’re still nursing.
  • The fear you haven’t named.
  • The boundary you won’t enforce.
  • The person/place/time/thing you won’t face.
  • The relapse thought that shows up uninvited like it owns the place.

No fixing it, no inspirational bow, no lessons learned; just the truth as it is, where it is. Keep it simple, vague and one sentence.

Why? Because what you refuse to face controls you; what you name and place in front of you, you can meet.

“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.” – Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

I’ll start by oversharing a few:

  • I tend to shut myself off emotionally, except at times outbursts of verbal anger, to avoid being hurt, hurting others.
  • I pause and struggle to say “I love you” back to my closest friends.
  • I put stress on myself because the people who should have been role models were terrible so at times I discount myself because I feel like I am a 40 something year old child who still hasn’t figured shit out yet.

Submissions will be anonymous. They do not need to be polished, messy is expected.

Once gathered, we’ll compile the submissions and evaluate the content for a show discussion(s) and/or post.

New Year, One Honest Thing

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